And if they would, they could ..

Sometimes when things go wrong and we hope that they would go on the right track again, we wish if things went differently, if we have done other things, if we have said wiser things, if we have thought of things and approached them in a different manner in an attempt to fix them. And never the less we try to invest more time in changing things, ignoring the fact that if they really wanted to excu...se us, if they really wanted us in their lives, if they really wanted to invest time and effort in changing what went wrong, they wouldn't have given us the what's if and could haves. They would have tried help us fix things without even make us feel that things went wrong. They would have invested effort in making us comfortable in our most disturbing condition! So don't invest effort and time, don't waste your happiness and mental peace with people who are not willing to do the same for you.. Because if everyone would, they could and just because they wouldn't then they couldn't :)